Why You Should Propose To Your Man.
It shouldn’t be embarrassing to us that women are beginning to propose to their men because in my opinion i do not see anything wrong with that.
Of course not all men want to be proposed to, so pardon me as i drop a few reasons why you as a lady should propose to your man.
“Give us that GENDER EQUALITY”;
In a meeting i was asked why it is right for a woman propose to her man, i smiled.
The lady was anticipating in anxiety to listen to what i was going to utter. Then I began,
“Women have always wanted Gender Equality so why not? I further explained my point that if as a woman or lady you think “women” should be permitted the right to do what a man does then why not in the proposal aspect?”
Unarguably, most women feel like they are being restricted and denied the right to get involved in certain activities. If you want that “Gender Equality” then why not? 🤷🏾♂️
“What a man can do a woman can do better”;
Lol! In my opinion, majority of the women today believe they can do better than what a man can. So therefore, if you have this believe in you that you can actually do better than what a man does then you should do a better proposal. Abi na? ￼🤷🏾♂️
Knowing his intentions;
Before it gets to the appropriate time for marriage, i am sure that the both of you would have spent a couple of time together, long enough to understand each other, and also long enough to know that you both want that same goal (marriage).
So in my own opinion, if you know he’s intention is to get married to you then it shouldn’t be a bad idea to propose. Moreover, you both know you want to get married to each other.
Same goal, same team, just a different scorer.
The Unconfident One;
Are you wondering why he still hasn’t made the move yet? Well, this was one of the few points given to me by a Relationship Expert. According to him…
“because a man haven’t proposed to you yet doesn’t mean that he’s not interested”.
He further stated that it could be as a result of being unconfident, or because he isn’t outspoken as you are. So if you have that courage to propose to him, then why wait for him?
Build your own relationship.
Break the law, think outside the box;
When you propose to your man, you’re simply taking a big first step. You are thinking differently regardless of what people would say, it is a prove that you are taking ownership of your life and your journey through it. So permit me to say that it’s about knowing what you want and feeling strong enough in yourself to just go get it.
Mind you, everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. If you still feel you shouldnt propose to your man then fine.
WARNING ⚠️. IF YOU WANT TO SHOOT YOUR SHOT, CAREFULLY DO SO.